Claire
Your relationship changes after having a baby…that’s for sure!
Although it can grow and flourish when two become three👫 ❤️ 👨👩👦, …it doesn’t happen without a LOT of work, over time.
It’s okay to feel some mixed emotions and even carry a little resentment given how much the changes have predominantly affected you, but not so much him.
Moms are often the ones managing the weight of parenthood, wearing the physical scars and carrying the mental load early on….
We’re allowed to feel ALL things as we work with our partners to add a little more balance to the scale ⚖️
HOW ARE YOU HANDLING YOUR PARTNER RELATIONSHIP AFTER BABY??
📸📝 @mommysbundle
Originally posted 2021-01-12 04:46:02.
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So it’s not just me!!!
I really feel like all of these issue’s stem from men not having the same length of paternal leave as women in the us atleast. Tell me your thoughts im not a parent yet
I really feel like all of these issue’s stem from men not having the same length of paternal leave as women in the us atleast. Tell me your thoughts im not a parent yet
I don’t know ladies what kind of men you are married to, but my husband is awesome…. Our first month as a family, first baby and he is always ready to help, no complaints about waking up in the middle of the night or making milk at 3 am…. I clearly see his happiness being a dad.
My husband likes to tell me he can’t take care of the baby because he was at work all day and needs a break. So I’m having to take care of her all day everyday all by myself, then when he’s finally home on weekends he says he doesn’t want to help because it’s his day off and he “shouldn’t have to work on his day off too”. I’ve tried explaining to him that every adult with children has a job and still has to come home and take care of their children but he insists it’s my job 🙃
Love this❤️