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My son when I didn’t swaddle him last night.

My son when I didn’t swaddle him last night.

Originally posted 2020-12-24 00:21:51.

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jdski712
jdski712
2 months ago

If your baby is rolling then i think the safest thing to do is to leave both arms free so they can lift themselves up if they roll to their tummy, which is the main concern when swaddling your baby. It takes them a bit to get used to usually about 3 days in my experience. Im prob the only one who feels this way, but I feel like using those transition techniques, like only letting one arm out at a time just makes it take longer and prolongs the process.

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2 months ago

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anon0402
anon0402
2 months ago

At around 4 weeks my babe was getting at least one arm out every night so I started to leave just one arm out instead of letting him get it out himself. He hated one arm in, one arm out. He screamed but as soon as I put the arm back in, he was fine. Weirdo.
At 5 weeks, I quit swaddling cold turkey because one 4am morning, he’d gotten himself completely out. 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

CampingPlayer
CampingPlayer
2 months ago

I don’t know how people managed before swaddles existed.. My son flails his arms non stop and ends up punching himself in the face, and scratching his face. Thankfully swaddles solve the problem when he’s in that mood.

rachelplease
rachelplease
2 months ago

Thank you for this laugh

Amberella81
Amberella81
2 months ago

I stopped swaddling cold turkey at 8 weeks. He flailed like fish out of water for a few days and now he’s settled down. I use a sleeveless sleepsack now.

burntpopcorneww
burntpopcorneww
2 months ago

This is hilarious and so true!

ohijustcantwait
ohijustcantwait
2 months ago

Scratch himself and pull his hair out… that’s what my boy would do 😒

treesEverywhereTrees
treesEverywhereTrees
2 months ago

I’m currently working on transitioning my son out of a swaddle too and he’s started to play with his hair. It’s the cutest thing

Hypothetical-Fox
Hypothetical-Fox
2 months ago

I feel this so hard with my son.

diviem
diviem
2 months ago

😂😂😂 it’s so true. Both my sons reacted like their arms just weren’t their own, floating around wreaking havoc while they tried to sleep. It’s only funny now that the nightmare is over though. I did both of mine cold Turkey (one was sick with a stomach virus and I didn’t want him to be encumbered, the other just broke out of everything all the sudden so had no choice), it just took about 2-3 nights for both.

ObsidianEther
ObsidianEther
2 months ago

We gave up after a week. She would just struggle and fight until she somehow, SOMEHOW, she got both arms out, then pass right out.

Stopped swaddling, cut time to sleeping baby in half.

ThrowDiscoAway
ThrowDiscoAway
2 months ago

We went cold turkey, not really by choice. Our son had a planned hospital stay a couple weeks ago (poor weight gain, getting better) and we completely forgot to pack swaddles so the hospital gave us a Halo sleep sack. He slept like a champ and hated when I tried getting him back in a swaddle when we got home. Had to run out to Ross and found a couple Halo sleep sacks for $6.99 (!)

mapeirce
mapeirce
2 months ago

Just keep at it! I don’t recommend a transition product because the AAP doesn’t have a clear stance on them or their safety(assuming you’re in the US) and it is just another thing to have to transition out of eventually. I suggest cold turkey as you’re doing and hopefully it will only take a few bad nights until you see some progress. Good luck!

emiyamermaid
emiyamermaid
2 months ago

On that note- any advice? Last night did not go well.

MissScott_1962
MissScott_1962
2 months ago

My son didn’t handle the one arm in thing, so we just went cold turkey. It was rough, but by night 3, he had adjusted.

LadySilvie
LadySilvie
2 months ago

Some kids never grow out of it. Hands. They are so weird.

I was once honored in front of my state representatives for a thing I did and it was televised/photographed for the papers.

But. My feet and hands. One of my legs was angled as if it was broken and my hands were just awkwardly splayed to the sides while some important person had their hand on my shoulder. It looked like I was being held against my will. My grandma was so excited to see the picture and then was like…. “what are you doing?” lol. We won’t even speak of my facial expression.

That picture will rot in the newspaper it was printed and never get digitized, I’ve made sure of that.

I just pray my poor daughter isn’t as awkward and anti-photogenic as I am.

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