Tips on how to make hubby relax during sex

  • Tips on how to make hubby relax during sex

    Trying For A Bub - 2021 Zensandwitch updated 1 month ago 1 Member · 2 Posts
  • Trying For A Bub - 2021

    hi3lla

    Member
    October 27, 2021 at 11:20 am

    Me (F28) and hubby (M35) have just started to TTC. We have been together for 9 years and married for 3. our choice of contraception for the last 6-7 years have been condoms.

    We have only tried 3 times so far and two of those times he haven’t been able to ejaculate. I know it’s because the pressure he feels for not being perfect (and probably also because it’s a new sensation to have condom free sex).

    Do any of you have any tips on great relaxing foreplays, situations or encouraging words I can say and do to help him feel more relaxed. We have great sex and he’s and amazing partner who always make sure that I’m in the center when we have sex. But I don’t think he is comfortable with the focus on him.

    Last night we had great sex but because he didn’t manage to finish it ended in a lot of anxiety for both. I want this process to be fun and playful.

    Any advice is welcome!

  • Trying For A Bub - 2021

    Zensandwitch

    Member
    October 27, 2021 at 2:05 pm

    Oh man, I could have written this. I’m having the same problem, so no advice only solidarity. We’re about to start cycle 5 and it’s only gotten worse each month. ED was never a problem before TTC but he’s putting so much pressure on himself he gets in his own head.

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