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MomonthecoastGuestOctober 15, 2021 at 8:17 am
I feel this so much ❤️ Our first had colic for a year and is still prone to tantrums and just is in general what I would call a high needs child. She’s not on the spectrum, she’s just a lot to deal with. And she feels things deeply and gets upset at the drop of a hair. That being said our second is a beautiful angel baby. Not even kidding. She slept through the night since birth, rarely cries, is happy as long as she isn’t dirty, hungry, or missing her pacifier. We’ve had pretty much zero problems with her. A difficult first child is no guarantee of an equally difficult second. I’m not saying you for sure won’t get another difficult child, but we didn’t and life is absolutely wonderful.