NatsouppyGuestOctober 21, 2021 at 4:47 pm
My husband and I have been trying for a year and a half. I want a baby because I want to experience that incredible love that everyone describes and have someone that is half me and half of the one I love. I think it’s normal to have doubts. As more time went on, I would sink into depressions where I wondered if this was all even worth it but when I snap out of it my feelings always remain the same – I want to be pregnant and I want to be a mom. Your feelings are valid and you sound like you are doubting the idea and coming to terms that motherhood may not be for you. And that’s ok to feel that way! But you need to be open with your husband. It will be a hard conversation but putting it off will only cause resentment. Maybe you guys can come to an agreement where you at least take a break from trying for a little and revisit it.