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  • SleepingClowns

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    October 21, 2021 at 2:36 pm

    It sounds like your husband really, really needs therapy, and you’re not a trained therapist (and even if you were, you wouldn’t be his). My SO has tremendous guilt issues as well (although nothing has ever triggered him like it seems like yours is) and he HAD to go to therapy and systematically learn to change his behaviours and reactions. He HAD to learn to recognize that his guilt was having a huge impact on his relationship w/me and his kid. You can’t be constantly doing everything in the household, parenting and your relationship just because he’s busy drowning in his guilt. It’s unsustainable.

    Tangentially, why isn’t he able to figure out if he has another kid or not and get this over with?