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crispysunflowerGuestOctober 22, 2021 at 2:50 am
There’s been a new term rising called Weaponized Incompetence.
It’s where, specifically men, decide to do things you ask them to do wrong or ignore what you ask them to change on purpose to make sure you never ask again. The people who do this simply want to pretend to not be able to follow the basic rules and as a result, leave you with more to do, more to clean, more to organize. This is so you don’t ask them to do anything in the future cause you know they’ll mess It up somehow – its just on purpose and a total piece of shit move.
I’d get out of there because this sounds like it could be emotionally abusive since he’s constantly disregarding your feelings and he’s not regulating his anger very well.